Toldot (Gen. 28:5-9)
Mahalat is the daughter of Ishmael whom Esau marries in an attempt to please his parents Isaac and Rebekah after the whole blessing fracas and the flight of Jacob. This "dvar torah" was actually written in 2007 when my congregation was studying the seventh aliyah. MAHALAT Pulling me by the hand, his smile confident and pleading at once – Esau brought me to his parents as a peace offering. Wounded and bewildered by Jacob’s betrayal he came to my father Ishmael, refuge of his family’s pain – my father – also the first-born, passed over by his father and his father’s God. Night after night I heard them thrashing it out by the fire – the anger, the hurt – my father’s assurance, “The pain will lessen, though the scars will never fade.” Esau looking up, our eyes meeting as I peer out at him from my mother’s tent – is his smile at a pretty girl the beginning of healing? No – he saw a bargaining counter – a channel back to his parents’ good graces. His thoughts ran thus: I marr